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It is no correct to talk about psychological conflicts in something related with reticular glasses; it seems that if we put them, we see. We have to think that if we don´t use any glasses our sight is poor, we don´t see clearly, our eyes lose sharpness and clearness, or we see double. This is our vision, and the process of improving the view is not given only by the reticular glasses or other eye techniques. It is necessary that you are able to process all the changes produced in your vision, because it changes your worldview.

If we had started, from the beginning, without glasses and watching what there is in front of our eyes; could we say how we feel?. An answer could be: ok, I see what I see. We take, for now, this answer as reference and depending on the day progress, we will ask the same question again. For example: it´s time to see a report on television and we feel bad because we can´t see properly. We are angry, and our answer is more emotional: pissed. Our first answer was Ok because it was new. Now, we ask ourselves: what do you want to do now?. And before, or after, we´ll do something for a better view or, at least, to feel us better.
Personally, in my recovery process, I decided to stop wearing glasses at once. But in these cases I had reticular glasses to improve my vision.

Not seeing, is a psychological barrier; normally, if you are open psychologically, you can be connected with existential problems, because if you don´t see correctly, you are not located in the world. We live in a three-dimensional world and we are in the middle. If we can not perceive this dimensionality, we can not be located. This physical situation is transformed into psychological; we are lost and confused as our eyes.

Another question is; what about the blind?. Why can they feel good psychologically?. In this case because they have had to develop other senses and they have created their own space.
The difference, between them and us, is that they have accepted they can´t see and they've developed other senses. And as we don´t accept that we can´t see correctly, other senses haven´t been developed to compensate.

If we knew the possibilities that life gives us to know ourselves better “we wouldn´t believe it”. People who have visual problems understand that: seeing properly means to feel ok. The difference with the people, who have not this problem, is that our conflict is more visible. I saw a person crying because he could read some letters clearly, when all his life had to wear glasses. That´s the beauty of life, as when you fall in love and your lover corresponds you. If you want to see, really, life will give you what you need.

If we go down to reality, we find so many barriers that we wouldn´t know what to do. Maybe this is the moment to consider more things; we can ask for help. There are many people who work for it like me. I advise that the person who helps you to improve the sight, it must be a person who knows how to see.

It is not important I tell you what I think about myopic or farsighted. If you want any information there are many webs where you have it; the Natural Vision web of Yahoo, and you can be a member. Maybe it is a good reference to see your mode of operation. But I´m interested in the cause of the conflict. In fact, when you catalogue a person, you don´t see a person; or at least, you don´t see this person with empathy. Perhaps it is better than the person tells us, how it is and how it feels. Anyway, I will show you some mechanisms of people who don´t see correctly. For example: hyperopic eyes didn´t grow well, surely they stopped the process at some point although, normally, they stop growing when the child is 6-7 years old. Anyway, and possibly, the eyes stopped growing at some point in utero. Maybe other parts of the body stopped their growth too. We have a physical guard mechanism that is, not to grow, and the emotional guard mechanism is, not to feel. I mean, I try not to feel, and I get it.  What is what I don´t feel?; obviously, this is the question of farsighted person; and the answer is inside the existential world because when we are in utero everything is existential.
Surely, one of the guard mechanisms of the farsighted people is not to feel when he/she is closed to somebody, therefore he tends to go away. If anybody is closed (physical or emotionally), the farsighted may feel a great fusion-confusion and they may wake up deep fears. But we should not be afraid because they are only hypothesis and we are at the present time. Life has its own tools to go on in any situation.  Right now, it is raining a lot, the light is off and I´m writing in darkness. The present reality helps to me to learn to type without looking at letters. I´m convinced that if we are able to join seeing and feeling, we can find a clearer way.